3 Things You Should Achieve Before Getting Married

3 Things You Should Achieve Before Getting Married

Marriage is not for kids, obviously. A good marriage can only be built by two mature people who are willing to forgive each other an overlook faults. Unfortunately, maturity does not always comes with age, and for most people it has to be consciously learnt and practiced.

If you want to make your marriage work, you must start making an effort before the wedding date is fixed. You must be determined to grow as an individual and develop different levels of maturity. Here are three specific levels of maturity you must develop before getting married:

1. Financial maturity

Money is one of the biggest reasons why marriages break up all over the world. If you don’t want your marriage to be included in that statistic, you must build financial maturity before you get married. Decide on your views about money and find someone who shares those views. Build your own income and develop your skills so you can add value to your family. Don’t go into marriage to be a parasite.

2. Emotional maturity

Your husband will offend you and hurt your feelings. That is as guaranteed as the next breath you’ll take. So prepare yourself to be offended and learn how to handle conflict the right way. One of the hallmarks of a great marriage is the ability to forgive and do so quickly. You’ll need to learn emotional maturity to achieve this.

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3. Physical Maturity

This doesn’t just mean having the necessary body parts that make you a woman. Physical maturity also involves being able to take care of your body and prepare it for everything it’s going to do when you’re married. Your body needs to prepared for regular sex and for childbearing so treat it well. You’ll also need to practice better hygiene because you don’t want to go and smell up the works in your husband’s house. The sooner you start practicing, the sooner it will become a habit.

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There’s no perfect marriage because there are no perfect people. There are just people who have decided to put in the work to stay married and whether you become one of them or not is entirely up to you.

Before you go, here are five discussions to have with your fiancé before you get married.

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Sweet Romantic words to tell Your Spouse

Sweet Romantic words to tell Your Spouse

You know what’s in your heart, but maybe you’re having trouble putting it into words. There are many ways to express your love. All you need is a little inspiration to help you realize what you want to say.

Romantic Things for Most Every Occasion

Sometimes it is tough to find the words, even if you have warm fuzzies in your heart. Here are some examples of things you can say to warm your lover’s heart.

Things to Say During a Candlelight Dinner

I love the way the light shines off of your beautiful eyes.

I could stay here forever with you. No one else exists right now.

The food is delicious, but the company is even better.

You are the perfect date. Let’s hang out again everyday for the rest of our lives.

I can’t think of a more perfect evening…good food, a bottle of wine, and you.

All day long I’ve been dreaming about having this dinner with you.

I don’t need any dessert, I have you.

The dinner is wonderful, but the best part is being alone with you.

I don’t care what’s on the menu as long as I’m looking at it with you.

Food feeds the body, but love feeds the soul.

You’re just like a fine wine…my eyes could drink you in all night.

Things to Say While Snuggling

I love holding you/being in your arms.

I feel completely comfortable with you.

It is so nice having you next me. It’s like a dream come true.

Nothing else matters but us together in this moment.

Every time I wrap my arms around you, it’s like coming home to where I belong.

All I want to do is lay here in your arms and listen to your beautiful heart beat.

I never feel complete until we’re holding each other again.

Mmm…you smell wonderful.

I just want to wrap my arms around you, and let the world drift away.

I think you were made to fit perfectly in my arms.

Things to Say When Out and About

Say nothing. Just catch his or her eye and give your brightest smile.

Introduce your lover as “the love of my life.” Then say “I really mean it” quietly in his or her ear.

Call your lover a pet name that only the two of you know about.

Point out something you pass by, and tell your lover how it reminds you of a romantic time you spent together.

I love going out with you. It gives me a chance to show you off.

I’m so happy I’m the one who gets to sit beside you.

Everyone must be envying me for being with you right now.

When I see someone else admiring you, it makes my heart swell with pride to know that you’re mine.

How did I ever get so lucky to be dating you?

Right now, I am the envy of every man/woman here just because I’m with you.

Things to Say in Love Notes

I smile every time I think of you. When I see you that smile gets even bigger.

You are the most important person in my life, now and always.

I miss your kisses. Come home soon!

You are my soulmate.

In all my life, I never believed I’d find a love like this.

As hard as I try, words really aren’t enough to express how I feel about you.

I plan on writing you love notes for the rest of our lives.

The word “love” just isn’t big enough to describe my feelings for you.

I never dreamed I’d write a love note to anyone…until I met you.

No one else can take your place. I can’t wait to see you again.

I’m my best self when I’m with you.

Things to Say on Valentine’s Day

Every Valentine’s Day would be perfect if I could spend them all with you.

I want to make your life so wonderful that every day will feel like Valentine’s Day.

You make everyday feel like Valentine’s Day.

One day a year just isn’t enough to show you how special you are to me.

You fill my heart with so much love.

I used to dread Valentine’s Day until I found you. Now I wish it was everyday.

I used to dream about finding the love of my life, and here you are.

This day would have absolutely no meaning without you.

Candy and flowers aren’t enough. Let me give you my heart.

There was a time when I thought I’d never have someone to share this day with. You made me believe in love again.

From the Heart

Words come easily to some people, while others can’t express themselve as freely. Really think about your relationship, how long you’ve been together, and where things might be going. Whatever you say, make sure it comes straight from your own heart. That’s what will make it genuine.

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Sweet Romantic words to tell Your Spouse

Sweet Romantic words to tell Your Spouse

You know what’s in your heart, but maybe you’re having trouble putting it into words. There are many ways to express your love. All you need is a little inspiration to help you realize what you want to say.

Romantic Things for Most Every Occasion

Sometimes it is tough to find the words, even if you have warm fuzzies in your heart. Here are some examples of things you can say to warm your lover’s heart.

Things to Say During a Candlelight Dinner

I love the way the light shines off of your beautiful eyes.

I could stay here forever with you. No one else exists right now.

The food is delicious, but the company is even better.

You are the perfect date. Let’s hang out again everyday for the rest of our lives.

I can’t think of a more perfect evening…good food, a bottle of wine, and you.

All day long I’ve been dreaming about having this dinner with you.

I don’t need any dessert, I have you.

The dinner is wonderful, but the best part is being alone with you.

I don’t care what’s on the menu as long as I’m looking at it with you.

Food feeds the body, but love feeds the soul.

You’re just like a fine wine…my eyes could drink you in all night.

Things to Say While Snuggling

I love holding you/being in your arms.

I feel completely comfortable with you.

It is so nice having you next me. It’s like a dream come true.

Nothing else matters but us together in this moment.

Every time I wrap my arms around you, it’s like coming home to where I belong.

All I want to do is lay here in your arms and listen to your beautiful heart beat.

I never feel complete until we’re holding each other again.

Mmm…you smell wonderful.

I just want to wrap my arms around you, and let the world drift away.

I think you were made to fit perfectly in my arms.

Things to Say When Out and About

Say nothing. Just catch his or her eye and give your brightest smile.

Introduce your lover as “the love of my life.” Then say “I really mean it” quietly in his or her ear.

Call your lover a pet name that only the two of you know about.

Point out something you pass by, and tell your lover how it reminds you of a romantic time you spent together.

I love going out with you. It gives me a chance to show you off.

I’m so happy I’m the one who gets to sit beside you.

Everyone must be envying me for being with you right now.

When I see someone else admiring you, it makes my heart swell with pride to know that you’re mine.

How did I ever get so lucky to be dating you?

Right now, I am the envy of every man/woman here just because I’m with you.

Things to Say in Love Notes

I smile every time I think of you. When I see you that smile gets even bigger.

You are the most important person in my life, now and always.

I miss your kisses. Come home soon!

You are my soulmate.

In all my life, I never believed I’d find a love like this.

As hard as I try, words really aren’t enough to express how I feel about you.

I plan on writing you love notes for the rest of our lives.

The word “love” just isn’t big enough to describe my feelings for you.

I never dreamed I’d write a love note to anyone…until I met you.

No one else can take your place. I can’t wait to see you again.

I’m my best self when I’m with you.

Things to Say on Valentine’s Day

Every Valentine’s Day would be perfect if I could spend them all with you.

I want to make your life so wonderful that every day will feel like Valentine’s Day.

You make everyday feel like Valentine’s Day.

One day a year just isn’t enough to show you how special you are to me.

You fill my heart with so much love.

I used to dread Valentine’s Day until I found you. Now I wish it was everyday.

I used to dream about finding the love of my life, and here you are.

This day would have absolutely no meaning without you.

Candy and flowers aren’t enough. Let me give you my heart.

There was a time when I thought I’d never have someone to share this day with. You made me believe in love again.

From the Heart

Words come easily to some people, while others can’t express themselve as freely. Really think about your relationship, how long you’ve been together, and where things might be going. Whatever you say, make sure it comes straight from your own heart. That’s what will make it genuine.

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Dont ever date A guy who has this 10 Characther

Don’t Ever Date A Guy Who Has These 10 Habits 

Imagine if you married a guy…but then realised he had bad habits that couldn’t be cured? In this article, Beauty and Tips takes a look at why you need to avoid guys with these 10 habits.

Prince Charming might have flaws, but he doesn’t have bad habits that can ruin a relationship. While it’s impossible to find the absolute perfect man (we’ve looked, he doesn’t exist) that doesn’t mean you should drop your standards and marry a guy who has annoyingly bad habits. For a man to be marriage material, he has to be completely the right man for you. Sure, he will still have flaws (don’t we all?), but flaws are different from habits. Habits are things we’ve learned to do over the years; they’re ingrained in our behaviour and we do them automatically. Not only can they annoy you, but it’s also practically impossible to get a man to change his ways. If a guy has some of the following 10 habits? He isn’t marriage material.

He’s Full Of Excuses

He can’t just give you a straight answer for why he let you down, and instead resorts to his Big Book Of Boyfriend Excuses. Each time he makes an excuse, he’s displaying his immaturity to you. Moreover, there is a good chance he’s lying. Excuses are the resort of children – and you want to marry a man, not a child.

He’s Narrow Minded

Guys who are narrow minded really frustrate us, don’t they? We just wish they would be more open to doing something other than watching sports all weekend, and we wish they would stop making snap, judgemental comments about people. Some guys can seem to be the most open-minded people about certain topics, but become closed off when it comes to other topics. And it’s really annoying because it can contaminate your relationship. For example, imagine you want to hang out with a guy friend you haven’t seen for a while. You know what this guy is all about, and you know what his “intentions” are – to hang out and catch up! Meanwhile, your partner mistrusts him, tells you all guys just want sex from you and won’t let you see him. If your man is still stuck in the 19th century with his close-minded views, he’s hardly worth marrying.

He Shouts

Any guy who has a habit of exploding with anger is a no-go as far as Beauty and Tips is concerned. If you’ve met a man who shouts, screams and verbally abuses people, stay well away from him.

He Breaks Promises

If your man casually breaks promises with you all the time, it isn’t a good sign. What this should tell you is that this is a bad habit he’s picked up down the years and is unlikely to change anytime soon. Broken promises are frustrating. If he breaks a promise early on in the relationship, it’s not a huge deal. But if he keeps doing it, you need to take this as the huge red flag that it is. In simple English, he’s disrespecting you and the relationship, and taking you for a fool. It’s a sign that he doesn’t care enough about you (or anyone for that matter) and probably won’t be changing in the foreseeable future. After all, he doesn’t seem to see it as a problem. But as the movies teach us, those who break their promises suck (it’s usually dad’s breaking their promises to their kids, and yes, they suck. And can you imagine what would happen if you guys had kids and he broke his promises to them, too?!)

He Lies

Breaking a promise is one thing, but if he brazenly lies to your face and you know it’s a clear lie, it’s a major warning sign that this is a guy you can’t trust. Lying is a bad habit that’s easy to get into and hard to get out of. If you’ve caught your man lying red-handed on more than one occasion, you’ll need to consider the very real possibility that he isn’t worth marrying.

He Doesn’t Put You First

If a man doesn’t put you first, you have to ask yourself the question – when will he put me first? The answer is probably never. Guys who don’t prioritise their women are instead in the habit of prioritising their buddies, their work or their hobbies. Love comes last, and if it’s always been this way in your relationship, there is a good chance that it won’t change.

He’s Possessive

It’s okay for someone to be a tad possessive at first. It’s even kinda cute. But you two have been together a while and he’s still being extra clingy, it’s a habit he’s probably not going to break. In fact, it probably means he’s a control freak. And that kind of man isn’t worth walking down the altar with.

He Likes To Win Arguments

If he gets a smug sense of satisfaction whenever he wins an argument between you guys and literally hates the fact that even once he could be wrong, it’s a bad habit that you should take as a red flag. No one in a relationship should go into an argument wanting to win. Instead, the goal should be a resolution that suits both parties. If your partner always has to be right? He isn’t worth your time.

He Won’t Take Responsibility

When we refuse to acknowledge our mistakes and take for responsibility for something that was OUR fault, we’re behaving like children. Worse still, we’re passing the blame onto someone else. Even worse, we’re not giving ourselves the chance to learn from our mistakes. If this sounds a lot like your man, he isn’t marriage material at this point.

He Has An Unhealthy Lifestyle

If he drinks and smokes too much while you’re trying to lead a healthier life, it’s a strong sign that you guys aren’t meant to be. Sure, he could cut down on his drinking and quit smoking. But if he’s tried in the past to no avail, it might be best if you avoid this kind of guy.

Stay happy!

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