5 Signs of imaturity

5 Signs of imaturity

Do you think there is a certain age maturity befriends? Could that be 20, 30, or 40?

Maturity does not have anything to do with age; maturity comes with experience. There are some young people who behave maturely than older ones. What are the signs that show a person is still not mature? Let us examine them. 

1. Listening less and talking more

A person who is not mature always talks and talks. In fact, the one is known as a talkative- presenting himself to the public as being childish. 

2. Over-reactive

Situations need to be handled calmly, not impulsively. A person who responds to situations impulsively is showing that they are not mature because mature people think before they react. 

3. Always defensive  

An immature person does not accept and show respect for another’s point of view. She does not want to accept her wrongs- she is always defensive.

4. Self-absorbed and self-centered

An immature person always wants things that will benefit her only. She is self-centered. A mature person does not think about himself, he does things for the benefits of others too. 

5. Irrational and frantic

Another sign to know a person who does not show maturity is that she is unreasonable, she cannot make decisions on her own and thus, feeling extremely worried. Mature people are not irrational, although it is not easy to make decisions. 

Are you still behaving childishly? You have to strip off that childish behavior and put on the complete suite of maturity.


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Why you should never use ginger for some health issues

Why you should never use ginger for some health issues

Never Use Ginger If You Have Any of These Conditions – It Can Cause Serious Health Problems

Ginger root is an anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, and digestive superfood.

The spice is recommended as a natural medicine for many physical ailments due to its nutrients and health-supporting phytochemicals.

There are situations, however, in which ginger is a less-than-optimal supplement to your diet and can exacerbate an already existing problem.

When To Avoid Ginger Root

Here are some of the situations in which ginger should be avoided because of their risks.

1. Blood Disorders

Ginger root is a blood anti-coagulant that promotes circulation. In the case of some blood conditions like hemophilia (in which blood coagulation does not occur properly), thinner blood can exacerbate the condition, making a small cut into a possibly life-threatening hemorrhage.

Beneficial due to exactly these effects for cardiovascular diseaserheumatoid arthritis, and high cholesterol, it’s best to avoid ginger if you have a blood condition without discussing it first with your healthcare provider.

2. Taking Prescription Medications

A pharmaceutical is formulated to address a specific symptom and is designed to work in a certain way in the body. Drugs come with lists of warnings and potential side effects.

Because ginger root has medicinal properties, some pharmaceuticals don’t mix well with it. So to prevent any risks, side-effects, read the warnings and inform yourself as much as you can for your own safety.

Ginger is a natural blood thinner and reduces blood pressure; it also regulates blood sugar (1). Taken together with medication that is designed to do the same can mean too much of a good thing. Hence, ginger should not be taken with anticoagulants, beta blockers, aspirin, or insulin.

A list of drugs known to negatively interact with ginger can be found here.

3. Pregnancy

Ginger root tea in early pregnancy has been found to relieve nausea and vomiting.

After the first trimester, however, ginger root should be taken infrequently in very small doses (if at all) because it can induce uterine contractions (2). This, in turn, may result in premature delivery or miscarriage.

On the other hand, it can be usedful when your delivery date has passed and you’re ready to meet your little one face to face.

4. Being Underweight

Ginger stimulates digestion, which is why it is so effective against an upset stomach and other gastrointestinal issues.

If you are significantly underweight, you want to slow digestion and absorb as many nutrients as you can from the food you eat.

High fiber content in ginger root moves foods through the digestive system and other compounds in the root can raise metabolism and promote weight loss.

Ginger Substitutes

If you find yourself in one of these categories, there are other spices you can use for flavor and/or medicinal properties.

For flavor, try substituting paprika (dried ground peppers) and whole peppers—either cayenne or sweet, depending on your taste.

Paprika can be found in different varieties with spiciness ranging from mild to hot. It contains all the nutrition of a whole pepper and is very versatile in cooking.

With significant amounts of iron, vitamins A, B6, and E, paprika has a lot to offer. Plus, one of the antioxidant phytonutrients in paprika is capsaicin, an anti-inflammatory agent known for healing the digestive system.

You may also try cardamom, with its rich savory flavor, nutrition, and supportive effects. Cardamom neutralizes acid, aids digestion, and tastes great in coffee.


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See what wife did after seeing her husband on bed with her daughter …

See what wife did after seeing her husband on bed with her daughter …

I caught Him in bed with My daughter, wife shows up

Father caught red handed having sex with daughter. [Photo/gossipmill.com]

Residents in Tana River county were left in shock after a man was caught pants down in bed with his biological daughter.

The public servant was caught in the act by his sister-in-law in Mwangaza, Hola Town in Tana River County.

The sister-in-law is said to have walked in on them when she arrived at the house unannounced at night and she found her niece romping with her father.

The sister-in-law shouted and screamed on seeing the two in bed attracting neighbours before she passed out.

The girl’s mother had visited her parents away from town and she didn’t know her sister would pay her a visit that day.

The father and her daughter got out of bed, dressed up and tried to resuscitate their relative, at that time the neighbours were trying to wonder what was happening.

When she woke up, the aunt confronted the two who confessed to having been in a romantic relationship for a long time and the mother confirmed that she was made aware of their relationship when she was called.

Neighbours said the mother when she was called told her sister not to meddle in matters that don’t concern her and that she feared that her marriage would collapse since her husband was known to be violent.

“Why do you want to destroy my marriage. You should not meddle with matters that don’t concern you,” said the mother of the girl.

“The mother was heard protecting her husband who was caught in bed with their daughter. This is just shocking,” said Mr Ahmed Bushra, a neighbour.



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Positive Quotes to Help You Live Your Best Life

Positive Quotes to Help You Live Your Best Life

Short Stories About Life

 When life has got you in a slump, turn to these motivational short stories. Not only is reading them like getting an internet hug for the soul, but they just may spark an idea or a change in you for the better. Read on and get ready to smile.

1. Everyone Has a Story in Life

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…

“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”

Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…

“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”

The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…

“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?” The old man smiled and said…“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.”

Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.

2. Shake off Your Problems 

A man’s favorite donkey falls into a deep precipice. He can’t pull it out no matter how hard he tries. He therefore decides to bury it alive.

Soil is poured onto the donkey from above. The donkey feels the load, shakes it off, and steps on it. More soil is poured.

It shakes it off and steps up. The more the load was poured, the higher it rose. By noon, the donkey was grazing in green pastures.

After much shaking off (of problems) And stepping up (learning from them), One will graze in GREEN PASTURES.


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This two celebrity couples love story would teach you some lessons..

This two celebrity couples love story would teach you some lessons..

Lessons To Learn From The Adesua Etomi and Banky W Love Story

Adesua Etomi and Banky W gave us the most epic love story of 2017. We did not see them coming and their story still gives us goosebumps all over. It’s such a pure and wholesome story because it wasn’t a regular celebrity point and kill story. By point and kill we mean guy sees girl and shines his teeth and before he can say “Jack Robinson” she’s sitting on his lap.

Adesua Etomi and Banky W met each other, started out and friends and grew in respect and love for each other before they eventually moved into a love affair and then marriage. It was a process and it shows growth.

That’s why we’re showing you three lessons you can learn from the Adesua Etomi and Banky W love story:

1. Patience is a virtue

The problem of a lot of couples today is that they want to rush things. One minute they have butterflies, the next minute they’re saying “I’ll love you forever.” Love doesn’t work that way. True love takes time and this doesn’t mean you should stall too much but it means that if you love someone, you’ll be willing to give them time. Patience shows respect for the one you love.

(Banky Wellington)

2. Publicity is not equal to validity

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Stop trying to publicize your relationship so desperately. Stop trying to be everybody’s relationship goals. Make sure you have something solid and that the people who matter most to you know it. That’s all. There’s nothing wrong with publicity, but make sure you’re not doing it to get public approval.

3. Know your worth

By any standard, Banky W was a bigger star than Adesua when he met her. Plus he was one of Nigeria’s most eligible bachelors and had many girls throwing themselves at his feet. Yet when he showed interest in Adesua, she took her time to make sure he was a good man. She didn’t fly and say “Lucky me.” This is obviously because she established her worth long before he came along. If it was you would you have kept Banky W waiting?


These are the lessons we’ve learned from the Adesua Etomi and Banky W story. Do you have any to add? Share with us below.

Before you go, check out Adesua’s cute little lookalike.


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Six Effects to a happy relationships

Six Effects to a happy relationships

There is no rule book on how to make a relationship work.

Despite love not being a science, there are certain truths that some couples already know which is making their relationship flourish. 

Here are six relationship principles successful couples already know.

Relationships are hard work

After watching a ton of romantic comedies in your teenage years, it’s easy to assume that being in a committed relationship will be a bed of roses — forgetting that even roses have thorns.

Perfect relationships don’t just happen; they require hard work and dedication. To have a great relationship, it’s important to have this vital knowledge from the get-go.

Appreciate each other every day

Bouncing off the first point, one may think making an effort daily is hard work — but it’s not.

Appreciating your partner does not always have to be grand gestures but instead, it’s the smaller, more personal efforts that count.

These small gestures make them aware that you care. Also, use your words. ‘I love you’, ‘Thank you’, ‘I appreciate you’ are not so hard to say.

So, instead of looking for the shiniest diamond pendant, you can fill up their car tank or set a glass of water by their bedside for them to wake up to.

Never to go bed angry

Anger never solves anything.

Instead, it makes you self-absorbed, limiting your ability to see the situation clearly or from a different perspective.

Holding a grudge will eventually kill the relationship.

Be best friends

This may not sound romantic but you’ll find that those in the happiest relationships say the friendship they share makes for their best moments together.

So if you’re not already best friends with your partner, find a way to become friends and stay that way.

Don’t depend on your partner for your happiness

  Relationship amateurs are guilty of making their partners their sole source of happiness.

But those who have figured it out know that only you can make yourself truly happy.

Don’t depend on anyone for your joy.

You can’t change your partner, only yourself

  Many people go into relationships with the intention to change their partner.

If that’s your plan, it will most likely fail.

If there’s a character trait you don’t like, don’t enter into the relationship with the hopes that they will change to make you happy.

Instead, be vocal about your feelings from the onset. If the reason is valid and your partner is reasonable, they will compromise.


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